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So in order to use php includes make sure you have changed all of the endings of your webpages to .php (They could have been like .html)
Next make a new page, name it menu.php (Paste your stylesheet, and anything else you want to show up on everypage, ex- affies, content link, etc..)
Then save your menu.php page
Now open up your index.php page.
Erase your stylesheet code that you may have.(Don't erase the part that postisions your content section, it may look like this code below)

Your positsion code you will need to paste on all of your pages that you have you layout on.
Click here for the code that makes your layout show up on every page(make sure you paste it on every page.)
So the code on your pages should look something like this-
Please let me know if you need any help!